Partner In Crime

Could you imagine a life without a go to buddy? Or as Merideth Grey would say your “person”? Luckily for me, I am beyond grateful for the people I have in my life and would say I have a lot of go to’s. There is two specific people though, who have seen me at my lowest point, and have seen me succeed in my best accomplishments. They are the two people who have cheered me on from the sideline, or have gone through the same experience with me. They are the people I could pour my heart out to and the first people I tell my corny new jokes to. They both have their differences that bring out the best of me. In any crisis they are always there for me. I think the most incredible thing about the two is that they know me so well, that they could easily point out my mood or how my day is going based on the way I speak or even look at them. There are many moments in life in which they have helped me which I could never thank them enough for.

About roughly a year ago I lost my great-grandfather. One out of many men who supported, protected, and loved me unconditionally. He is loved by so many, especially by my great-grandmother; and all of his children, grandchildren, and great-grand kids. When he passed it hit my like a truck I guess you could say. I am not one to show my emotions, but of course spending the whole day holding miserable loved ones, and mourning; I was completely emotional. The day was already tough as it was, but I also had practice that night. In any case someone would have just skipped, but I remember it being a big game, and I just needed something else to focus on. Trying my best to just ignore everyone I made my way through the locker room, grabbed my practice jersey, and shoes and put them on. Everyone else made their way in out with laughter and silliness. Since I am not one to show my emotions, everyone knows me as happy, bubbly person; So everyone was pretty worried and concerned. I found myself just sitting alone, holding back tears as everyone walked out for practice. A few moments later, my “person” walks in. She might have been running late to practice as usually (haha) without saying a word she just looked at me, and hugged me. At that point there was no way of holding back all my tears and pain. She was truly my shoulder to cry on that day. The best part was that after our moment of a hug we looked at each other, and she was crying!

Finally, able to form a coherent sentence, I asked her why on earth she was crying? We both shared a few giggles and laughed as we realized we were both complete messes. She finished getting ready, and we both walked out to practice together. In this case she helped me because while I was trying to take on something by myself, she did not let that happen. She came in understanding and supporting me; helping me get back on my feet. The fact that she was crying, was how I knew she was going to be a life long best friend. To this day, we are best friends. We have gone through ups and downs, but have gotten ourselves through it all. I pretty much consider her a sister from another mister. I’ve known her since 7th grade of middle school. Life has been an epic roller coaster, that we somehow have managed to ride through together. We can be a pain in the butt to each other, but never for long because we always need to share something with each other. The best thing is she’s there for me even during the best of times. She’s my go to lip sync, dance battle, go get food, workout buddy and more.

My other “person” is the one that keeps my head on straight. She is the best encouragement, and the most positive thing in my life. She’s a constant reminder to appreciate the little things, and find the best in every situation. I know I can count on her for anything, I depended on her when I was stressing out at the beginning of this year. The overwhelming plans of capstone and college got to the best of me. I had explained to her that I had no idea what I was doing with my life, while everybody had it all figured out; or as though that is how it seemed.I was afraid, I was super behind everyone, and that my plans were not as strong or developed. As usual, she made me feel like I was not alone, and she reassured me of the smart and hardworking person I am. She also reminded me that I need to do what makes me happy. Comparing myself to other will never resolve my solutions because they are not me and I am not them. Her constant words of encouragement with an occasional joke always turn my frown upside down. Granted, I am still stressed about capstone, school, and life after college; although with a friend like her by my side, I have nothing to worry about. I know at the end of the day she will always be there to pick me up, put me back on my feet, and continue going strong.

At the end of the day, both these people are my main support system; beside my family. While they are always there for me; I will always be there for them. I can not thank them enough for everything they have done for me. I am beyond excited to see what the future holds for these two people. I wish them all the success, love, and happiness in the world. In addition, I am so happy to know I have friendships that will last a lifetime.

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