Chances after Mistakes

Problems help humans grow and become successful in life. While it may seem like problems are only an interference with daily life, we grow and learn from our problems. Without problems in our lives people wouldn’t be resilient. If people aren’t resilient then they’re going to feel victimized and develop unhealthy coping. Feeling victimized and having unhealthy coping mechanisms happens when people don’t experience problems. If they don’t learn from them then they can deal with their problems in an unhealthy way, such as drinking. Staying connected and learning from your problems is the best way to become and stay resilient. Being resilient is an important characteristic because it gives us an ability to hold ourselves up when something bad happens and to recover quickly. Resilient lets us recover from any impending issues fast because we’ve learned from the past how to handle problems. It’s important to face these problems to become aware and know how to deal with a serious challenge. Small problems grow up your experience on how to handle challenges. If not for building up the past experiences, when an issue appears then you’re going to fail to face the challenge and stumble down.

Nevertheless, a famous artist called, ‘Lana Del Rey’ is known for her melancholic style of pop music. Lana Del Rey is a well known singer around the world but even the most famous people struggle in life and succeed in their goals without issues. While she’s popular, it doesn’t mean everyone is fond of her and her music. Lana Del Rey faces hate from people around the world and is shunned for her music. Lana Del Rey faces problems everyday from the public. In early 2020 people pointed at her claiming she was glamorizing abuse. This was a problem in Lana Del Rey’s career that she had to face because she was losing fans. In order to deal with the issue, she decided to post a statement defending her reputation and style of music. Her defending statement was about her music. She claimed that she was not glamorizing abuse. Lana Del Rey said, “‘Can I please go back to singing about being embodied, feeling beautiful by being in love even if the relationship is not perfect…”. Even though some people believe that she’s glamorizing abuse she believes that she’s explaining how you may still be in love when there’s an issue occurring in a relationship. With her defending statement she was able to face her problem with the public. With facing problems everyday she grows and learns how to handle the public issues and comments she receives. Lana Del Rey has grown past the pointing fingers of glamorizing abuse because she had addressed her side of the issue and what was really occurring. The method she used to solve the problem had worked and she grew from the past. This is why problem’s can offer great chances. With problem’s comes struggles but after facing those struggles and getting through them can lead to great success and opportunities.

“Problem, Solution, Result…” by duncan is licensed under CC BY-NC 2.0.