What types of family expectations or traditions are your characters facing? How do those characters respond to these expectations?
As a kid he was a Vietnamese refugee, as a kid he grew up in a different situation than others, his dad who worked everyday while trying to support his family and didn't know english. He was often teased for his name as a kid. In College he decided to take 2 majors but ended up hating them and when he dropped those classes he expected his dad to reprimand him but instead he just told him to take something you do like because in their language this is no ‘what if’ or ‘what could've’. When he took ancient Greek he loved it and took other languages he loved. He is so fascinated about language he talks about how vietnam is the most optimistic language because there is no ‘what ifs’ or ‘what should've happened’. His biggest message is that he wants me to explore more languages, communicate more and not think about what could've happened, think about what to do next “This is about understanding and understanding your language and grammar. Go and reclaim and reappropriate your language and grammar.” (Tran)
The Namesake by Jhumpa Lahiri introduces Ashima and Ashoke, Indian immigrants adjusting to life in the United states Ashoke survives a fatal train accident, which influences his decision to immigrate. Their son Gogol, is born in Massachusetts, and the family faces cultural challenges like for example in there culter great grandmother names all of her grandkids babies but around the same time Gogol is born she has a stroke and her mind isn't all there anymore so they took it upon themselves to name their kid. "It's not the type of thing Bengali wives do. Like a kiss or caress in a Hindi movie, a husband's name is something intimate and therefore unspoken, cleverly patched over."( Lahiri Chapter 1)This quote illustrates the ingrained customs of this family's interactions and the personal adjustments they make while navigating life in America.
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