In the book Behold the Dreamers by Imbolo Mbue Jende Jonga almost misses his opportunity to get a good job as a driver for Clark Edwards, a wealthy businessman because he doesn't have the right papers. But Clark was desperate. Jende thankfully gets the job. Jende had only been living in the U.S. since 2004 with his wife Neni. She eventually gets a job as a nanny for the same family. Despite both of them not having the best connection with their family back in Cameroon, they still send them money to help support them even though they are struggling themselves.¨first ran to an ATM, to withdraw money from their savings account, and then to a bodega bearing a western union logo on its window, to transfer the funds to cameroon¨(Mbue 56).
In the Ted Talk Why children of Immigrants experience guilt by Sahaj Kaur Kohli, the narrator talks about how with immigrants, there's often an expectation to make their parents' sacrifices coming to the new country worth it. Many immigrants feel a sense of guilt for letting their parents down. But guilt is not necessarily a negative emotion and it's extremely important because it can guide you. Like any emotion, it tells you something and you should listen to it before you decide how to handle it. ¨There's often this expectation to make our immigrant parents' sacrifices and choices for coming to this country worth it¨( Kohli Pg 1).
The connection between my book and the Ted talk is that Jende is a victim of childhood guilt. He works extremely hard to provide for his family in New York. And Despite this all, he sends money to his family in Cameroon so they are supported. Which is why I feel as if he is guilty. Because he couldn't take the rest of his family to New York.
What kind of guilt are your characters experiencing? And how are they alleviating it?
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