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In my book How Dare The Sun Rise by Sandra Uwiringiyimana, it starts suddenly and fast with an attack on a camp in their home country. This ended with many people in Sandra’s family being severely injured or killed, most spoken about a relative who was taken in the attack was Deborah, she was the younger sibling of Sandra, whose life was taken in the shootings at her camp. Her mother was also wounded but was able to live, so from then on they moved around, they ended up living in three different places in three different countries in Africa, before the family was interviewed for immigrant placement, they were placed and Rochester New York, surrounded by unfamiliar people and systems the family struggled, many times Sandra had to act as her parents to call people for them, like calling credit card companies, etc, Sandra said she felts it was odd that she was now the one teaching her parents how things worked instead of the other way around, and as this happened Sandra still struggled with herself, trying to fit into this new environment and understand how things work, how people dress, pastimes people do. It was all a huge culture shock to Sandra and she struggled, between fitting in and trying to teach her mother and father how things worked. 

This book has things comparable to the  ted talk about cultural bias, as the speaker spoke, saying “Doing and saying things that are polarizing,insensitive,or make no sense at all”(Quinn), I noticed that Sandra had said similar things happen to her like when her history teacher had the class watch the movie “Hotel Rawanda” knowing little of Sandras past, Sandra looked around and noticed ”Why are you looking at me? It seemed as if they assumed that as a black peraon, I was a speaker for all black people”(Uwiringiyimana, 165) and that maybe they had experiences similar and would have understood each other, both of these people struggled with cultural bias, the main difference in, Sandra experienced the discrimination while the speaker subconsciously stereotyped, none the less both of them faced many hardships while trying to overcome it. 

That leaves me to question; do the characters in your book struggle to fit in and fight the feelings of Cultural bias that they feel after moving? Where are your characters struggling and where are they successful in trying to fit in?


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In my book The Brief Wondrous Life of Oscar Wao, Oscar the main character is the black sheep of the family. He's very nerdy and on the heavier side and has acne during his middle/highschool days and even still when he is in college. In the beginning the book talks about him and how he was getting girls and stuff but then his gf threatened to break up with her since he had another gf. He broke up with his other gf Olga but then his other gf breaks up with him and he grows up he becomes a nerd and he got bigger and no girls wanted him. Then later on he goes to college and he meets a girl named Ana which he falls in love with and she brings him out on a date. But she doesnt get with him and instead goes back with her ex. The book then moves onto his sister, his sister lola hated their mom deeply even though their mom was sick. Which made her run away from home with a boy named Aldo but they eventually broke up and then she gets another boyfriend named Max but then my book kinda cuts off into their mothers story. In my book The Brief Wondrous Life of Oscar Wao talks about his and his sister's mother (Beli).  She had a very repetitive life but she got a scholarship and throughout school she dreamed about boys which upset her mother. Then she got her first bf named jack he's considered the schools handsomest but they didn't last long but then they got back together but that also did not last long and she dropped out of the school.she eventually got with a gangster for a long time, she got pregnant by him but his wife sent her off with some grunts that beat her near to death, she was dumped on the road and somehow she lived. She then later left Santo Domingo to go live in New york. My book moves on back to Lola, her grandma tells her that she has to move back with  her mom and she quit her classes and everything and she even broke up with Max. She felt like utter crap and she wasn't herself. She fooled around with one of her classmates' dad who was after her which made the guy happy till she asked for a lot of money. She had gotten the money and stashed it. She soon found out that her ex Max had died which was heartbreaking for her since she hadn't seen him since the break up. my characters did infact struggle to fit in and fight the feelings of cultural bias during some of the parts of my book. except during the second part of my book theirs not alot of them struggling to fit in, they are mostly struggling with problems they have with their family or loved ones. one of the times my character (which in this case its Lola) had to struggle with family issues was when her grandmother was making her go back to living with her mother. "I couldn't believe what she was saying. it felt like the deepest darkest of treacheries to me I wouldn't feel that again until I broke with you." (Diaz 205)

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what if the brother never had the issues with his girlfriends, and what would have happened differently if the sister mess around with her classmates father?

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he probably would have had a gf and may have been way more confident in himself and wouldn't have become much of a nerd. also for the second question I didn't really understand it because the sister did mess around with her classmates father unless you meant to say something else.

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in my book, Girl in translation” by Jean Kwok. Kimberly, who moved to the US from Hong Kong. where she has to balance life between school, and working at a sweatshop. But soon after they found themselves with a minute level of comfort. Despite the remarks she gets made about her. The shop owner Al informed them that the block was going to be demolished and they should find somewhere else to go. But then, when she is applying for colleges. She gets a full scholarship which is a huge thing for Kimberly and her mother.

in my book on page 139, she's changing in the bathroom, she had just finished changing, when someone took a picture of her over the stall door. and the day after, people were making fun of her. later she argues with her mother on this and Ma asks how they saw and Kimberly says "I told you, everyone changes together and everyone looks at each other! this isn't China, ma!" (Kwok 140) I think it shows in an odd way, that she's fighting by trying to fit in. but she is still struggling greatly to do so.

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I think I'd agree with you on how in an odd way it is showing her own struggle to fit in, just as Sandra is in my book, by trying to wear similar clothing and do similar things. 

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Behold the Dreamers by Imbolo Mbue is about a small Cameroonian family and their experience immigrating to New York and their experience so far. The Jonga’s (the family in question) came to New York in search of a better life for their six year old son, Liomi. Through this search they meet the Edwards, a rich family who made it because of their father, Clark, and his involvement as a top Investment banker at Lehman's Brothers. Jende Jonga, the father of Liomi, is employed by Clark as his personal and family chauffeur. As he carries out his job he learns of the true sadness and tension in the otherwise happy seeming Edwards family's life. He learns of their sons and how one of them (Vince) is unhappy with his father and how he, in Vinces’ opinion, makes all his life choices for him so he decides to live in India as a sort of retaliation. He learns about the Edward family's mother (Cindy) and her drinking and drug problems and the tension between the married couple through his wife (Neni) and her short employment by the Edwards as a house maid. They have been fighting to get Jende his permanent residence in America and things are moving slowly. Eventually he finds out his story proving why he came to America isn’t sufficient and his request was denied. It leads the Jonga family to think of what would happen if they were split up and what they would do if sent back to Cameroon, “Jende dreamed of…strange men in uniform taking him away from his fainting wife and crying children…They could never take him back to Limbe. If they took him back he might no longer be the happy child he is and…forever resentful towards his parents.” (Mbue 227) They are fearful and have nightmares about it. They have one more chance to prove why Jende should stay in America and it's going to cost a lot of money at the same time the Lehman’s Brothers end up declaring bankruptcy after being involved in a scandal. Leading up to this declaration, Clark and Cindy’s marriage gets shakier and Clark eventually tries to negate this by going to see a private escort. Cindy finds out, gets Clark to fire Jende and he and his wife end up out of a job. They have enough money for a few months worth of living but their legal case will cost more.

In the book, there isn’t much talk about how the Jonga family feels about their difference in being immigrants as opposed to being born in America, but that's not to say that there isn’t the occasional page or two where they do talk about it. When discussing Jendes job and its stake, they say this, “You think tomorrow you lose your job, she’ll remember your name?” “You’re just a black man who drives her around,” Winston said. (200) They believe that they are not seen as equal to the Edwards. It’s true to some extent, the Edwards don’t believe they are equal but it’s more in a status sense. They believe they are better because they have more money, not because they were born in America and aren’t immigrants. 

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I find it interesting how both of our characters were moved to New York state; and i see how in both of our books the immigrated family is spoken down upon by people of the same race with the same nation of origin, but the people speaking down to them were born in the U.S. so they think there better

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In my book A Girl in Translation by Jean Kwok Kim recently moved to the United States from Hong Kong. Kim is still struggling with the challenges of being an immigrant, balancing her education, work and the struggles that come with being in a new country. Kim still struggles with the language barrier between her and her classmates which often makes her feel isolated.Kims feels isolated at school because of the language barrier and the cultural divide. In my book Kim feels embarrassed because of her working class background because she has to work at a sweatshop while her classmates don't have to worry about that. She often feels isolated from her classmates because of the language barrier and the cultural divide, “ The students who were smiling showed even, white teeth to match their even, white skin. Was I going to be the only white person in the whole school?” ( kwok 105) This quote shows that even when Kim goes to a completely different school she still faces a cultural divide which causes her to feel isolated from her peers.

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