What responsibilities do children of immigrants have to their parents? What responsibilities do parents have to their children? How are the family relationships in your story helping or hurting your character?
“Why children of immigrants experience guilt” by Sahaj Kaur Kohli is a Ted Talk is about a woman on the ted talk who talks about the guilt children of immigrants assimilating to another country, she talks about bad guilt and healthy guilt, what it means and healthy coping mechanisms. “ So a lot of children of immigrants are often mediators for cultural conflict within their family” (Kohli), I chose this quote because it is a stereotype for children of immigrants which Trevor is, but he does not fit the stereotype. Instead of being a mediator he makes more issues.
In the novel “Born a crime” by Trevor Noah is about a mixed child named Trevor who was living under apartheid in South Africa, the majority of the book talks about his struggles with his racial identity and figuring out who he is and finding his place in the world. In the book Trevor describes the strong relationship with his mother, and spends most of his time with his mother and her side of the family. And this could be them going to church 5 nights a week together, sleeping in the same room, going on adventures and being each other's best friend.
Trevor not fitting the stereotype in the ted talk shows that it is a very broad subject, and not 2 people are the same, “My mom was the only force I truly feared. She believed if you spare the rod, you spoil the child. But everyone else said, “No he's different”, and they gave me a pass. Growing up the way I did, I learned how easy it is for white people to get comfortable with the system that awards them all the perks”(Noah 52), he cause issues for his mother because he was taught he can use being white to an advantage.“She was talking of course about stopping the Nazis in World War 2 but that's not what I was hearing. Jews in South Africa are just white people. All I was hearing was some white lady shouting about how white people beat us up before and they’ll beat us again. “I said you will never stop us again lady -and here's where I played trump card- “You’ll never stop us, because now we have Nelson Mandela on our side!”(Noah 198) this quote is where the disconnect starts with him where he chose what group he wanted to associate with based on him trying to feel comfortable with his racial identity.
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