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In the Ted Talk titled “The Need for Family Reunification- to Make Families Whole Again," Elizabeth Zion reflects on her past and growing up without a dad because he wasn’t allowed entry into the country. She goes on to talk about how important it is for families to be together in times of need and need to be reunified. “We need governments to accelerate reunification applications, and we need them to address the bureaucratic and political barriers to reunification for families all over the world" (Zion 5). In this quote, Zion talks about how the system is flawed and slow and needs to be fixed so that people can be properly relocated with their families. In the book “Out of Nowhere” by Maria Padian, the character Saeed faced relocation at one point when he was misplaced in the system and originally from Somalia, but he got moved to Maine. “Sometimes he surprised me and came up with a string of English that made you think he could speak the language.” (Padian 96). This quote talks about Saeed’s English and how it’s not very good and can be hard to understand him a lot of the time because he’s still learning. In the Ted Talk titled “What Marrying an Immigrant Taught Me About Cultural Bias” Kyle Quinn talks about his experience marrying an immigrant, during which one of the things he came across was the language barrier at times. “And as soon as I typed in “XOXO” into the Portuguese keyboard and pressed send it autocorrected to “xixi e cocô”. The Brazilians know this means “piss and shit.” Took her a while to respond to that one as you can imagine. And she said when she did it was like “what is this sick American goodbye you have just given me?” (Quinn 1). In this quote, Quinn explains how he is using the Portuguese keyboard and typing what would be something normal for people who speak English, but in Portuguese it meant something different and was hard to understand. This relates to Saeed, as they both experienced issues with communication skills and understanding.

Based on a character in your book,  is it tough for them to understand the deep struggles of people from different cultures or difficult life situations? What might make it hard to see things through their eyes?

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In my book "Love In English" by Maria Anderson, my character Ana experiences struggles trying to communicate with her friends. Her American friends don't understand what Ana is going through with cultural differences because she is trying to make herself as normal as possible. "but when we went to the countryside for a few days, literally I did not know how to ask for a slice of bread." (Anderson 114) This quote tells me people are trying to relate to differences but also making it about them and they just went on vacation, it is a lot different when you need to live in a culture and speak a language you do not know all the time.

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I agree, I think it's easy to understand and find a way to relate to them, but only in their own specific way. It's definitely a lot different when you experience it first-hand and have to learn.

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This is similar to Out Of Nowhere by Maria Padian because Saeed is trying to fit in and act "normal" but people still look at him differently because he's from Somalia. 

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I find this easy to connect to my book, "Private Label" by Kelly Yang because one of the main characters Serene is only liked because she has money and her mom is low-key famous.

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In my book, "Private Label" by Kelly Yang, Lian actually has a pretty good understanding of recognizing other peoples struggles, whether it comes from the person themselves or just general observations.  "I want to chuck the phone halfway across the field. I can't believe Cameron would brag about that in a group chat." (Yang 27) Lian thinks it's disgusting that Cameron would tell people he went down on his girlfriend in a group chat and he thinks its wrong.

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What was Lian's upbringing to be able to understand other people's struggles?

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uh well his parents are hella strict but they have a good heart so he knows how to treat women and he knows that the dude telling everyone he was getting some in a group chat was weird. 

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In my book, "Private Label" by Kelly Yang, it follows the story of the only two Asian children in the school, both struggling in their own ways due to their very different lives. Coming to the U.S. from Bejing, Lian is ignored and often ridiculed by his classmates. He wants to hope it's because he lives in the lesser part of town, but he knows the real reason. Serene, on the other hand, being the only other Asian child, is popular and liked because her mom is a famous fashion model but many people don't know, nor care about the blatant racism in the fashion community.  

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My character moved to the U.S. as well 

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In my book How Dare The Sun Rise by Sandra Uwiringiyimana, Sandra’s journey shows just how tough it can be to grasp the struggles of people from different backgrounds or tough situations, especially when their experiences feel so far removed from our own. Still, the memoir also points out that understanding can grow over time through self-reflection, empathy, and being open to learning from others. 

Sandra has a hard time understanding the struggles of people from different cultures or life situations when she first arrives in the United States. Her life as a refugee from war and genocide has made her see the world very differently from others. She has been through so much, like losing family members and surviving violence, which makes it hard for her to relate to people who are dealing with less serious problems. But as Sandra learns more about herself and others, she starts to realize that everyone faces challenges, even if they’re not the same. She becomes better at seeing things from other people’s points of view by being open to understanding their experiences. Sandra says, “ I, however, have come to realize that I want to live my life with my heart and mind open to other people, other cultures, other tribes. I don't want to stop myself from developing relationships with people because of their race or culture or where they come from’’ (Uwiringiyimana 275). This quote shows that Sandra doesn't find it hard to understand the deep struggles of people from different cultures.

 

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