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In Phuc Tran’s book, Sigh, Gone, he discusses the difficulty of figuring out his identity as an immigrant in a mostly American neighborhood. From questioning his name to determining where he fits in the social structure of his high school, Tran has to navigate learning who he is with an additional barrier to the average teenager, having a whole other culture as a large part of his life. One way that Tran finds ways to carve out his place is to read, not just to improve his vocabulary, but so he can have the same cultural references as the typical white guy, using Clifton Fadiman’s The Lifetime Reading Plan as a guide. 

 

At one point in the story Phuc’s father beats him so badly on his butt and the back of his legs with a metal rod, that he can’t sit down in school the next day. His second grade teacher, after several prompts to sit, calls him to her desk and he breaks down to explain why he can’t sit. She decides to call his parents and asks to visit. During her visit, Phuc is forced to wait in his bedroom, terrified this interaction will cause him to be beaten again. When she leaves, his father explains that she told them about the incident and how parents in America can’t hit their children as much as parents in Vietnam, and to Phuc’s surprise, his father heeds her words. He reflects, “My father didn’t beat me that week. Nor the next week. And he didn’t beat me for the rest of that school year. It was a long reprieve for me, and I was thankful for it.” (Tran 67)

Based on this idea and the ideas from your book, what are examples you’re seeing of where Americans aren’t explaining things clearly to immigrants and it’s causing problems? Or where, after a brief explanation, simple things are resolved?

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My book is A Pho Love Story by Loan Le. This book, so far, talks about the challenges two kids have with their parents. Both families are from Vietnam and have immigrated to America. This book describes the challenges that both kids face when it comes to being good enough for their parents. The characters are Linh and Bao. Bao doesn’t feel that he can be good enough for his parents but doesn’t know how to tell them how he feels, along with Linh who has struggled to fit her parent's standards when it comes to life after high school. As the book has gone on Lihn and Bao become closer, although Lihn and Bao have been fighting and arguing a lot and ended up not talking for a while.  Their families have always hated each other as long as they could remember, but they are tired of being pulled apart because of them. Lihn and Bao are now trying to figure out the real reason both families don’t like each other. 

In my book, Lihn has always wanted to be an artist. She has been drawing and painting since she was a little girl. Back in Vietnam, it wasn't acceptable to do something like what she wanted. When her parents lived in Vietnam all they ever did was work to be able to afford things like food and shelter. Now that they are in America they don't fully understand that if Lihn wants to be an artist she can and no one will shame her for it. Lihn's parents set guidelines that they want her to follow which are close to the same things they did as a kid.“‘How can your parents not want you to be an artist?’... ‘I guess it doesn’t feel stable to them.’” (Le 129). This quote shows just how much her parents don't like the idea of her being an artist because it's different to them so they don't feel like it is reliable enough for them. Lastly, Lihn's parents don't understand that in America you can be whatever you'd like, and being an artist can give Lihn enough money to sustain herself. Her parents need to realize this because since they are so adamant about her doing something she doesn't want to do, it's holding her back from her real passion and now allowing her to gain something from her amazing artwork because it's not something they'd do back in Vietnam. 

 

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Phuc experiences similar situations as he ages. While he's young, he's obsessed with Star Wars and he does a lot of imaginary play, and his father is almost annoyed by it. Perhaps the biggest disconnect is that his father has no way to connect with fantasy lands and people because there is a whole new language with, and Phuc's dad barely understands English. At one point, Phuc is trying to read a Star Wars based text and his father can't help him understand what a "Wookie" is. It's not in their dictionary. So, Phuc is immediately disconnected and disappointed in his father's lack of knowledge or understanding. 

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I really do see the similarity between my book and yours, because in both I see the same thing. Parents being hard on there kids because they want them to be successful. I saw in my book that by them being hard on there children it helps them become successful in the long run, I am asking you if you would agree or not?

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In my book “Almost american girl” by Robin Ha, My Character struggles with learning English, she feels very discouraged because she only knows half of it. All the kids in her class can read, write, talk in English and shes the only one with the struggle. Language is a big part of assimilating because how are you supposed to assimilate or fit in if you cant even talk to anyone. American kids will mock her and take advantage. One kid calls her “Ching Chang Chong” that is incredibly racist and hurtful. He then says “Let me teach you the american handshake.” (Ha 65) And grabs her hand to spit in it and rubs it in. This makes Chuna very mad and feels as though she’ll never fit in quite like the american kids. Everyone looks at her differently and she wonders how she could change to make them like her. Her family member Lena dresses nice and expensive and she wishes that she could look like Lena with nice silk hair, fair skin, petite body, and a nice smile. These stereotypes are harmful. 

 
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In "Patron Saints of Nothing" Jay was blinded by lies, but not from the Americans, from his parents. Jay's parents tried to hide the truth about the Philippines, back home there was a huge drug war taking it over, Innocent people died because of it, and cities were torn apart. Since they were in the US it was easy for him to believe his parents. It wasn't until finally, his cousin(Jun) death brought the truth out. " 'He was shot' she pauses. 'by the police.' "(Ribay 24) After this moment Jay realized something was wrong back home that the family was hiding from him. He did days of reaserch finding little bits of info until his anylasis, he found his cousin died from the drug war. From there he takes a trip to the Phillipans to find out more about the drug war and how to clear Jun's name.

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This is very interesting and it can relate to my book because in my book Lihn and Bao are trying to figure out why their families hate each other so much they've done a lot of different research and are now finally finding pieces of why they hate each other. 

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I love this example because I think that too often we're looking at the ways Americans are getting in immigrants' way, not immigrants getting in their own, or other immigrants' ways. Phuc knows that his parents are not telling him everything that's going on---they often argue in Vietnamese, which he doesn't understand. But, most of his reflection, although it comes from when he's an adult, is about how his father had good intentions a lot of the time. There's one moment when Phuc is shocked because his parents stopped accepting donations from their sponsors for clothes, but have rotated only clothes they have purchased themselves into their closets. Do you think that Jay's parents keeping information from him was, not only a way of protecting him, but giving them opportunities for more stability and feeling of accomplishment? Or, do you think that their efforts to hide information actually just made things worse for all of them?

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I think Jay's parents hid things from him to keep him on the right track, keep his mind in the right place at the time. I also think they hiding it from him to mature him he was very immature for his age and by his parents doing this it helped him grow  up and become successful for himself. So in my opinion I definitely think this helped him dramatically. 

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