In Patron Saints of Nothing Jay and his family moved from the Philippines when Jay was very young. Jay’s parents were always very controlling of him; they wanted him to have everything planned out like college, seeing friends, and even stuff he would buy. Jay lost contact with the rest of his family besides Jun, his cousin, after he moved. Jun and Jay were close and would write letters to each other. When Jun died the family hid it from Jay, Jay eventually found out that Jun was dead and why his parents hid it from him. Back in the Philippines there was a big drug war going on. Jun got dragged into the drug war and started to sell, Jun died from a shot to the chest from a policeman. Jay went on a trip to the Philippines to see family and find out more about Jun's death. When he comes back home he talks to his dad and decides to take a gap year and go back to the Philippines and learn about his heritage. To this his dad says “ ‘I’m going to defer my enrollment at U of M.’... ‘I want to go back to the Philippines,’... I’d like to see more of the country,, I continue. ‘Learn more of its history’… ‘I’ll speak to your mother. Then the three of us can sit down and talk.’ “ (Ribay 315-316) By his dad saying this and in a way allowing him to do what he thinks is best it shows growth in both of them.
The Ted Talk I chose is “What’s missing from the American immigrant narrative” . In this Ted Talk she talks about Mexican American women that had to go through high school and college with no family due to them being deported. She also then took in her little brother and took care of him so he could get the same experience. She says “I did not know it back then, but during those eight years that I lived without my family, I had my oxygen mask on and I focused on survival.” (Gutierrez) what she means is she had to help herself before helping others. The connection is that in both scenarios I see a young adult or teen has to decide to do what’s best for them first, and worry about their family afterward.
My question for you is do you think immigrant children have a better mindset after going through what they had to? By having a hard background does it gives them the right mindset and base they need to grow and achieve?
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