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In the ted talk dont Feel Sorry for refugees by Luma Mufleh about her experience as a child and even into adulthood about refugees,in her ted talk she mentions how her grandmother brought her to a refugee camp. That  she didn't want to play with the refugees there because they were different and how her grandmother forced her to go and play with them.“ I returned a few hours later, having spent some time playing soccer with the kids in the camp. We walked out of the camp, and I was excitedly telling her what a great time I had and how fantastic the kids were.”(Mufleh 3:14)  

In the novel, a girl lost in translation by Jean Khan Kim has started to grow close with another child named matt. She discovers a little more about Matt and finds out about his father. This makes her feel like she has something in common with him that she didn't know about before so she feels more comfortable with him. “By showing me his father in such a sordid place, he was letting down his face, which told me I was as close to him as anyone could be. I gave him a little nod. He seemed satisfied and turned away.”(pg 218) 

Does the character from your book find someone they can relate to? Was it easy for them to make friends?

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In my Novel "Home is not a country" Nima has a person she can really connect with. She has a friend thats really her only friend. His name is haithman and him and Nima have gone through a lot together. for Nima it isnt easy to make friends, she is bullied and doesnt fit in. People dont like her and never talk to her except for Haithman. Haithman was beaten up by these white guys and he was badly injured in the hospital. “I have to keep moving, to outrun this day, this week, the sight of Haithman’s split mouth taped to its tube I push through the gate & hear my heart pounding in my ears” (Elhillo pg. 92). Nima doesnt know how to handle her only friend being in the hospital with his whole body beaten up. she doesnt like seeing him like this and she has no way to help her only friend. 

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why did the kids beat up Haithman was there a reason or was there no motive for it ? in my book the character Kim felt the same closeness with Matt when she found out something she didn't know about him and later grew to evolve feeling because of this bond they shared  

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Ifemelu has a similar situation, she can connect really well with her boyfriend, Blaine, but other people are foreign to her. Ifemelu expresses that: “With his close friends, she often felt vaguely lost. They were youngish and well-dressed and righteous, their sentences filled with ‘sort of,’ and ‘the ways in which’; they gathered at a bar every Thursday, and sometimes one of them had a dinner party, where Ifemelu mostly listened, saying little, looking at them in wonder…” (Adichie 314). It is easier for Blaine to socialize with people because he can relate to his fellow Americans, whereas Ifemelu finds difficulty relating and communicating with new people because she did not grow up in the same social environment and culture as them. This does become an issue for Ifemelu, especially once she splits from Blaine, and is left in an unfamiliar place in which she needs to create her own social identity and find people that she can fit in with.

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gclair24 says: In my novel “Under the same sky” He hasn't made any new friends to keep on the way of his Journey, however he can relate to some of the Kkotjebi that were staying on the streets, with no family and nowhere to sleep. Just going back to the market everyday to look and beg for food, until they got caught and then he related to the boys in prison with him, just surviving day by day “ I had no peace at the center. Even when I was out of sight.” (Kim169) he was suffering the same way the other kids were.

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in my book Kim kinda has something like that with the kids and people who work in the factory they all have to go there to help parents finish off work for the day and be able to make deadlines so she relates to the kids that have to work in the factory like she does 

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Being black in America is something that a plethora of people can relate to, however, it's easier to relate to someone in the spotlight. For Ifemelu, Barack Obama was one who she related to the most. A black person in the spotlight, making a daring move toward the presidency, he’s an emblem for the black people in America. “I can’t believe it. My president is black like me. She read the text a few times, her eyes filling with tears…Barack Obama’s voice rose and fell, his face solemn, and around him the large and resplendent crowd of the hopeful. Ifemelu watched, mesmerized. And there was, at that moment, nothing that was more beautiful to her than America” (Adichie 447-448). For Ifemelu, this moment made her feel like she belonged; a black person in power, what more could one ask for. 

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in my book Kim felt the same at the beginning of the book she didn't feel she belonged and even skipped school because she didn't like her teacher and some of the kids were not very nice but by the end she felt comfortable she had enough friends where she wasn't alone and felt she belonged there. 

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