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In Phuc Tran’s book, Sigh, Gone, he discusses the difficulty of figuring out his identity as an immigrant in a mostly American neighborhood. From questioning his name to determining where he fits in the social structure of his high school, Tran has to navigate learning who he is with an additional barrier to the average teenager, having a whole other culture as a large part of his life. One way that Tran finds ways to carve out his place is to read, not just to improve his vocabulary, but so he can have the same cultural references as the typical white guy, using Clifton Fadiman’s The Lifetime Reading Plan as a guide. 

Early in the story, Tran talks about his family’s relocation to the United States after fleeing Vietnam. After being bounced between multiple camps and multiple countries, they finally started to settle in Pennsylvania, “We needed to blend, adopt our new country as it had adopted us. My parents were navigating all the straits and inlets of living in America, holidays like Halloween and Thanksgiving, driving in the snow, the difference between ketchup and catsup.” (Tran 20).

Based on this idea and the ideas from your book, how quickly are immigrants pressured to assimilate? What aspects of culture do they need to assimilate to early, and what aspects can be avoided or pushed until later?


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In my book Gabi, A Girl in Pieces by Isabel Quintero, it talks about a Girl named Gabi and her life as a Senior in high school being a bigger girl, having a beautiful but pregnant best friend, a gay best friend who just got kicked out, a meth addict dad, and a mexican mom. Through all these struggles and side problems for Gabi she still tries to overlook them. Gabi doesn't dwell on these problems or try to make them seem happier than they are. She simply lives through the conflicts. Based on my book a quote that relates is about Gabi’s mom, “My mom constantly worries that I will be too American.” (Quintero 34) This quote answers the questions with an idea of not wanting to assimilate completely. It gives another question of do immigrants need to assimilate to the standard we want them to. 

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Hi esmith25,

It sounds like Gabi lives a difficult life trying to live up to the standards that everyone expects her to, especially when reflecting on how different her parents and friends are. It seems like everyone in her life has a label on them because, as you explain, she has "a beautiful but pregnant best friend, a gay best friend who just got kicked out, a meth addict dad, and a mexican mom." Does Gabi then find it difficult to also fit in as she does not seem to have a "label"?

 

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Gabi does not act like she finds it difficult to fit in, I don't think she thinks of it that way. Gabi hears the hurtful things people say about her and she knows that she doesn't fit into any of the labeled groups. She thinks of it as having her own group. Gabi overcomes a lot of strife in her life and she's very good at not letting it affect her mental state so she can still be there for her family and friends.

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My book Border Child by Michel Stone, shows a family, Hector and Lilia, who lost their child, Alejandra, while trying to cross the border into America from Mexico. It shows their struggle to find Alejandra, where Hector finds someone who gives information about where she could be, and he starts taking on other jobs to get enough money to pay for the bus fares to go north to find Alejandra.

My book does not talk about struggles with assimilation, but it does show the financial and emotional struggles of losing their child while trying to cross into America while trying to find a better life. “This powerful man, Diego the magnificent, would help Hector make the money he’d need to proceed to Matamoros, enough money for bus fare, meals, and lodging . . . Enough money to pay for Alejandra if the orphanage forced Hector to adopt back his own child.”(Stone 77)

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Hi jguay25,

Wow! Your book sounds quite sad...especially when it is a family who lost their child. I like how you did not find any direct connection to the discussion question, but instead, discussed how your book relates to the idea of struggling, similar to how assimilation might be for many people. You say that "[Hector takes] on other jobs to get enough money to pay for the bus fares to go north to find Alejandra". Do you think that your characters will ever find her? Do you also think that eventually your characters will decide to assimilate to their new culture?

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To clarify, Hector and Lilia got deported back to Mexico from America shortly after Lilia crossed the border and lost Alejandra so they had not even gotten the chance to assimilate.
I do think they have a chance at finding Alejandra because they got information that a woman matching the description of the person who took Alejandra across the border and a baby were involved in a car crash where the woman was dead but the baby survived, which means that there is a chance that Alejandra could be found, which leads to Hector moving north towards the border to search for her in orphanages.

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In my book Breathe And Count Back From Ten by Natalia Sylvestor it is about a young woman named Victoria who is about to go into her senior year of high school and has had  quite a bit of difficulty in life alone. She was born in Peru and moved to Florida. She has hip dysplasia and has had numerous surgeries to make it better and easier to deal with. She spends most of her time swimming in the pool at the complex she lives in or with her best friend Leslie, Her pain tends to lessen when she is swimming. Her parents don't really trust her anymore because of an incident with a guy over the summer. They also don't understand certain things that go on in America. 

My book shows some frustration with the culture difference between Victoria and her dad. her dad doesn't fully understand what Americans do for entertainment. he doesn't understand why his daughter likes to watch mermaid shows or swimming. He thinks that "things in the US are tacky and cheap..."(Sylvestor 26). This didn't make since to Victoria because they didn't necessarily have a lot of money, it was just different than Peru. this can be frustrating for Victoria because he can't understand the way of life for young woman in the US. 

 

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Hi nlemay25,

Based on your description of Victoria and her father, it sounds like there is a real disconnect between those two characters. Victoria seems to want to fit in and maybe even assimilate, while her father does not see the point in doing so. Do you think that this disconnect between Victoria and her father will continue throughout the book? Do you think the Victoria's father will decide to assimilate by the end of the novel? 

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I think that Victoria and her fathers relationship trouble will stay the same. I don't believe that they will stay disconnected because she has been getting the same responses about her interests by her father. 

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I would like some clarification, what is the incident with someone that caused her parents to not trust her?

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Victoria was caught my her father with an inappropriate interaction with a boy named Jeremy in the hot tub that is located at her apartment complex.

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