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Where are you seeing examples of your character struggling with being misunderstood? How did your character handle them? Did they have any support or did they deal with it alone? 

My book, “The Brief Wondrous Life of Oscar Wao” is by Junot Diaz. the book is all about the upbringing of Oscar so far, and his battles with socialization and struggling to fit in and talk to girls. Oscar is a Dominican nerd who enjoys writing and reading scifi every chance he gets. His life is unfortunate, for he has a girl that is his best friend but he has a crush on her while she doesn’t. This girl, Ana, is in a relationship with Manny, who just got back from prison. Manny abuses Ana, but Oscar can’t do anything about it and neither can Ana. Oscar has many struggles, but still tries to improve his life by doing things like getting rid of his afro, trying to lose weight, and other things. 

My Ted Talk, "The Grammar, Identity, and the Dark Side of the Subjunctive" Phuc Tran talks about different languages (English vs Viatnemese), but more specifically, being misunderstood. The message I took from this was that Language is a powerful tool, so be aware of how your language shapes your thinking. People who learn new languages and people who only know one language could benefit from this speech. A connection between this speech and myself is When I went to Oak Hill Cash I talked to the cashier and I couldn’t understand him, because there was a language barrier. A quote I found meaningful because of the message it portrays. “It’s your first and most powerful tool to experiencing and communicating with the world around you.” (Tran) Similar to Phuc Tran, Oscar is misunderstood because he is different. He may speak the same languages as others around him, but he is heard differently and looked at differently because of his appearance.

A Quote and citation from my book that shows the connection “Oscar had always been a young nerd-the kind of kid who read Tom Swift, who loved comic books and watched Ultraman” (Diaz 20)


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In the Book The Namesake by Jhumpa Lahiri is a book about a family that moves to Massachusetts from India. The mother Ashima is pregnant and tries to leave the hospital without naming him because of culture. The doctor says that can’t be done and they give him the name Gogol which is a pet name.  Ashima gets pregnant again and Gogol goes to school. Gogol then receives his “good name” Nikhil which is his more official name. Kids start making fun of Gogol’s name. Students wonder about his name as it's Russian but he is Indian. Eleventh grade he is a smoker and drinks which his parents do not know. He goes to a party at the college his dad works at and he meets a girl named Kim who he kisses and tells her his name is Nikhil. In the book when Gogol was younger he did not want to change his name to Nikhil. His parents tried to tell him to change it because it was in their culture. When Gogol got to the school to be registered he got help from the principle to keep his name Gogol. “Gogol? Do you want to be called by another name?... he shakes his head no.” (59 Lahiri) This shows that the principle helped with their misunderstanding, because the parents could understand that Gogol did not want his named changed. That he wanted be Gogol not some new name.

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I agree on how Gogol is being misunderstood and looked at differently. The way Gogol handled the feedback and actually got help from the principal shows the connection between Gogol and Oscar. 

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I agree with how the principle treated Gogol, asking him if he wanted to keep his name or not. This shows that the principle cares for him, and helped out his parents with there misunderstanding.

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I agree with how Gogol was treated by the principle and was reassured of his decision to keep his name this way it is now. 

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In the book The Brief Wondrous Life of Oscar Wao by Junot Díaz it talks about Oscar de León is the main character in my book and he is a Dominican American who is a nerdy man, haunted by a family curse. The book goes on to talk about his life and the events he had to go through to get where he is now. Oscar is a Dominican American living in New Jersey and how he has faced struggles trying to find his place in the community, identity and mostly love. Currently the book talks about Oscar in highschool and how he is hopeless in love because he has been rejected by the girl in his SAT class for her older more abusive boyfriend. He is depressed and his feeling extremely isolated, puberty is taking over his self confidence and making his desire for love even stronger. Based on my book a quote that relates is “If you didn’t grow up like I did then you don’t know, and if you don’t know it’s probably better you don’t judge.” (5) Oscar deals with being judged and misunderstood, people will judge him without knowing his story.

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What if Oscar never had the struggle of a love life? would that change his personality and how would it change how he goes about life? 

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If Oscar never had the struggle of a love life, I believe that we would have been more comfortable being him self. If he had that someone that made him feel as if he was important, his personality wouldn't be so hidden and his confidence would go up.

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In the book "The House on Mango Street" by Sandra Cisneros the Main character Esperanza struggles with fitting in with others in her age group. Esperanza is a 12 year old girl who is Mexican-American growing up in the state of Chicago. She is self conscious of her appearance, weight and even her name. All throughout this book she has talked about. Esperanza deals with toxicity in her life not only formed by her but also others who do damage towards her and her esteem. "If you give me five dollars I will be your friend forever. That's what the little one tells me. Five dollars is cheap since I don't have any friends except Cathy who is only my friend till Tuesday. Five dollars, five dollars" (Cisneros 14). This proves that Esperanza is an option to people who she literally pays to be her friend because she is treated as an option to a majority of the people in her life. In conclusion, yes the main character in my book faces problems with being misunderstood. 

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