In the Ted Talk “Why Children of Immigrants Experience Guilt-- and Strategies to Cope” by Sahaj Kaur Kohil she talks about how children of immigrants usually feel guilty for not living up to the family's culture or having better access to things then they did when they were younger. “letting their parents down for not being enough, for being too American,for seeming ungrateful.” (Kohil) She talks about how this is a warning sign and how it's not bad to have guilt, it's a way to find help to cope. In the novel Written in the Stars by Aisha Saeed, Nailas also feels guilty for not being enough for her family. She wants to live her own life and not have her parents make her decisions about who she marries. She tries to cope by pushing things away and not thinking about it. “I push out the images of my parents, their reactions when they discover I'm gone” (Saeed 130). Do your characters in your book also struggle with guilt and not feeling good enough? How does this show in your novel?
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