Has your character experienced guilt or expectations from another character that they overcame or let go of? How has your character grown or shown that they can move beyond the difficulties in their life?
In the Ted Talk “Why children of immigrants experience guilt—and strategies to cope,” Kholi is a mental health therapist and helps children of immigrants to talk about their experiences. She talks about the difference between the cultures or way of life between immigrant parents and their children.Kholi said that “Many children of immigrants feel a chronic sense of guilt for letting their parents down, for not being enough, for being too American, for seeming ungrateful.”(Kohli).This Ted Talk is a great example of growing or getting over guilt because Kohli has helped quite a bit of kids get over their tough thoughts of guilt.
In my book Breathe and Count Back from Ten by Natalia Sylvestor. Victoria and her family moved from Peru to Florida. Victoria has had hip dysplasia since she could remember and has had many surgeries and operations to try to make it more tolerable. She has met a boy at her apartment complex named Alex who moved from Houston, Texas. She has just recently found out that she most likely will be getting a hip replacement at the beginning of her senior year and right when she started her new job at the mermaid cove. She feels quilted because she wants her parents to be proud of where she has come, but they don't approve and she just wants to be happy. Veronica feels “The unbearable regret of knowing it's your fault that their sacrifice wasn’t worth it.”(Sylvester 51). This shows how she felt at the beginning of the novel, but she has grown and learned to not overthink the guilt that she has. She started to believe that she was enough, “It's mine. My choices. My comfort. My decisions.” (Sylvestor 63). This shows her growth because she started to believe that she could make her own choices and decisions.
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