In the novel Tj Powar Has Something to Prove by Kaur Deo, Tj Powar is a highschool student, her and her cousins become the target of a rude meme. Tj promises herself that she will stop waxing, shaving, and plucking her hair to prove to people that she can still be beautiful and confident while not being controlled by America's social norms. In the process she goes through many hard times including losing her boyfriend and having arguments with people close to her, as her story goes on she begins to wonder who she is really trying to prove wrong. “The truth of it is that humans are ugly little creatures by our own standards, and no one’s immune to being human, although some of us try to hide it.” Kaur Deo, 265)
In the Ted Talk What’s missing from the American immigrant narrative, she talks about how economics can affect the lives of many immigrants, and how hard it was to say goodbye to the rest of her family when she decided to live for herself and create her own lives. She also talks about how society is putting pressure on immigrants to be and act a certain way.
Both the video and my books talk about how American society and expectations can be belittling to anyone who doesn't fully meet them, “But both of these narratives are flawed in the ways in which they dehumanize people if they don't fit within a certain mold or succeed in a certain way. And this really affected my self-image, because I started to question these ideas for who my parents were and who I was.” (Elizabeth Camarillo Gutierrez 3:49)
What societal differences does your character experience?