Summary- When Jason was little he had a weird fascination for spoons, his mom used this as an easy way to bond with him. Jason's mom runs a lot and intensely to simulate what Jason is going through and she uses this running and a way to almost cope with him being gone in the military. During the novel Jason mentions picking the military over other college careers because emotions are hard for him. Jason's mom is very worrisome about jason. After everyone found out Jason was officially presumed dead and lost everyone from the town, retired ranger, old man and many more that were concerned for Jason and about his mom and mourning his death.
“The quiet nights now give him time to think through accumulated emotions and all those years in which he'd tried not to express them. He doesn't like to spend too much time thinking about them; it's one reason he's chosen a far less cerebral path” (Carpenter, 32)
Terms- Character, understatement,
“...when he is underwater, when he is swimming and opposed to performing a task, Jason lets his mind wander…these concentrated thoughts allow him to forget the physical pain.” (Carpenter 43)
Terms-plot, character
“ if he survives. That was the subtext of her fears. And very soon she would learn that every choice and every moment and every thing in the military, and in the lives of family members who waited back home for their fathers and mother's and brothers and sisters and son's and daughters and lovers, was infused with the same fear.“ (Carpenter 44)
Terms- pov, understatement, plot
“One irony of Jason being gone was that, unlike other mother's who perhaps saw their son's more often, these letters were a look into the soul of a boy becoming a man. She knew each time she saw him throughout those years of training he would be changed slightly, yet forever. The letters prepared her. He was slipping away.“ (Carpenter 72)
Terms- plot, character, pov
Moments that seemed important or significant to me was Jason and his mom would bind their relationship by playing imaginary games in the woods together. Another significant moment is when Jason's mom got the call that Jason was alive and that she needed to get on a train right away to go see him after thinking he was dead. One of the “roll backs” tells Jason that 3 of the most important “management’ things are. Expectations management, pain management, and anger management, expectations management is basically getting you through the day, pain management is getting you through the movements, and anger management is getting through not having privacy and not being treated like a human being.
My evidence chosen addresses the message about war because it's showing how his mom struggled through having her son away and the roller coaster of not knowing his safety.
“One irony of Jason being gone was that, unlike other mother's who perhaps saw their son's more often, these letters were a look into the soul of a boy becoming a man. She knew each time she saw him throughout those years of training he would be changed slightly, yet forever. The letters prepared her. He was slipping away.“ (Carpenter 72) This quote helped me better understand that his mom is in reality struggling with having her son away and not seeing him. She compares this to other mothers that maybe get to see their son more often and how she's basically watchinghim grow into a boy to a man with her not there and it hurts her to see him changing so much without her. She feels like this makes her feel like Jason is slipping away from her.
if he survives. That was the subtext of her fears. And very soon she would learn that every choice and every moment and every thing in the military, and in the lives of family members who waited back home for their fathers and mother's and brothers and sisters and son's and daughters and lovers, was infused with the same fear.“ (Carpenter 44) This quote is her comparing her situation with Jason and not seeing him and much with other females going through similar situations as her and how everything their son's or daughters or whoever is very impacted their families from what they do and that these families of these soldiers are at home filled with fear at all times for their kids or loved ones.