"On The Rainy River" by Tim O'Brien
“I would go to war--- I would kill and maybe die--- because I was embarrassed not to" (O'Brien, 59). This shows both understatement and paradox. The reality is there that he's going to war and will kill people, and perhaps die himself, but all because he's embarrassed not to. Also, understatement for casual mention of death.
“I survived, but it’s not a happy ending. I was a coward, I went to the war" (O'Brien, 61). Again, understatement and paradox both. Surviving yet saying it's not a happy ending, as if it's the end for you yet you survived. And understatement in the slim amount of information, as this quote is fairly concise, and few words are required to get the point across simply because there's no real going into detail about the situation.
These terms helped me better understand war by showing war can be a harsh reality, but yet feel like it's a dream, and can be underestimated for the effects it has on people, or what happens and what is experienced in war.
The authors perspective on war is that it is tough, and it's a struggle for people who go through it, even before they fight.
My message taken from this about war is the war is traumatic and not easy for anyone. Survived war, or going to war, it is not easy. And it leaves an impact on you, sometimes even before you fight in war, even when it's only just a thought of fighting in one.